Love isn’t something to chase—

it’s something to become aligned with.

Calling in "The One" is a transformative 12-week journey designed to help you break free from old patterns, heal past heartbreak, and attract the deep, committed love you deserve.

This process isn’t just about finding the right partner—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who naturally draws in healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Through guided coaching, you will:

  • Heal past wounds and release emotional blocks that have kept love at a distance

  • Rewrite your love story by shifting self-sabotaging beliefs and patterns

  • Step into your power with confidence, clarity, and deep self-worth

  • Attract love with ease by embodying the energy of the relationship you desire

Instead of waiting for love to happen, this program empowers you to create the conditions for love to flourish—from the inside out. True love begins with you, and this journey will help you step fully into the version of yourself who is actually ready to receive it. 

A Transformative 12-15 Week Journey to Love & Self-Empowerment

In my proven 12-week program, I guide clients through a powerful process designed to release limiting beliefs, heal past wounds, and step fully into their personal power. This journey isn’t just about attracting your person — it’s about cultivating your most important relationship: the one with yourself.

Whether your goal is to find a lifelong partner, deepen your self-love, or both, this program will empower you to become the most radiant, confident, and fulfilled version of yourself.

Does this sound like you?

  • You keep attracting the wrong partners—unavailable, emotionally distant, unaligned or just not fully committed.

  • You feel stuck in the same painful patterns in relationships, no matter how much you try to change things.

  • You’re successful in many areas of life, but love feels like a struggle, leaving you wondering why it hasn’t happened for you yet.

  •  You secretly question if deep, lasting love is even possible for you, even though you long for it.

  • You’ve done the inner work—therapy, self-help, even dating strategies—but something still isn’t clicking.

  • You’re tired of waiting for love to just "happen" and are ready to take a different approach—one that actually works.

If any of this resonates, Calling in "The One" coaching can help you break free from these patterns and step into the love you truly deserve. This journey is about more than just finding the right partner—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who naturally attracts and sustains a deep, meaningful relationship

Imagine the freedom and confidence that comes with absolute clarity about the kind of love you truly desire—a healthy, mutually fulfilling relationship where you feel seen, valued, and cherished in your entirety. A partnership where you can show up fully as yourself, knowing that every part of you is honored, respected, and deeply loved.

Let’s create the shift that changes everything.

What you’ll experience

Deep Healing & Self-Discovery
Uncover and heal the emotional blocks and patterns that have kept you from experiencing true love—both with yourself and others.

Embracing Your Authentic Self
Learn to show up fully as you—in your power, truth, and joy. Discover how to embrace and accept every part of yourself - unapologetically!

Creating the Life & Love You Desire
As you step into your most authentic self, you’ll naturally attract the relationships, opportunities, and experiences that align with your highest vision.

Lasting Transformation & Empowerment
The tools and insights you gain will create sustainable, lifelong change, helping you break free from old patterns and step into a future filled with love, confidence, and possibility.

Are you ready to call in the love you truly deserve—starting with yourself? Let’s begin this powerful journey together.

“Working through Calling in the One with Julia was a profound experience—especially the section on Toxic Ties. It helped me confront deep-seated dynamics in my relationship with my parents and take meaningful steps to set boundaries, allowing me to show up differently both with them and for my future partner. I continue to revisit the curriculum, gaining new insights each time. While I’m still holding space for my beloved, I’m deeply grateful for the shift this work has created—helping me approach dating with greater intention, optimism, and meaning.”

— James C. Psy.D. - Clinical Psychologist, NYC

The 7 Steps to Calling in "The One"

A journey to attract and create the love you desire by becoming your most radiant, authentic self.

Step 1: Get Ready for Love

  • Shift from thinking love is something to "look for" to knowing it’s something you create, share, and is inevitable.

  • Get clear on what you truly want in a relationship and what’s been holding you back.

  • Start aligning with the version of you who is ready to receive deep, lasting love.

Step 2: Let Go of the Past

  • Release old heartbreak, resentment, and emotional baggage that’s been keeping you stuck.

  • Break free from past patterns and unspoken agreements that no longer serve you.

  • Transform old stories and beliefs about love that aren’t aligned with what you truly want.

Step 3: Rewrite Your Love Story

  • Heal the ways you may have abandoned yourself in past relationships.

  • Take charge of your happiness and learn how to meet your own emotional needs.

  • Build deep self-worth so you stop settling for crumbs and start attracting what you truly want and deserve.

Step 4: Become Magnetic to Love

  • Align your energy with the love you desire so you naturally attract the right person.

  • Let go of scarcity thinking and self-doubt—love is available to you now.

  • Step into confidence and self-trust in dating and relationships.

Step 5: Master the Art of Self-Love

  • Strengthen your relationship with yourself, because great love starts from within.

  • Develop unshakable confidence, self-compassion, and emotional resilience.

  • Learn how to make choices in love that honor and support you.

Step 6: Embody Your Best Self in Love

  • Show up in relationships as your truest, most radiant self.

  • Set healthy boundaries and expect the love you truly deserve.

  • Build the mindset and habits for a deep, connected, thriving partnership.

Step 7: Trust and Receive Love

  • Fully own your worth and power in love.

  • Trust that love isn’t just possible for you—it’s inevitable.

  • Step into the future where you are already deeply loved, cherished, and fulfilled.

How do we work together?

THE PROCESS

The Calling in "The One" book is a seven-step journey that, through guided reading and journaling practices, helps you uncover and release the often unconscious barriers keeping you from love. As you engage in this deep inner work, you’ll heal past wounds, shift limiting beliefs, and step into your power and authenticity. In doing so, you naturally become magnetic to healthy, aligned partnerships, attracting the love you truly desire. 

Together, we will follow the book’s seven-step process, using our sessions to gain clarity on what you truly desire in love, identify your core needs, and learn how to stay deeply connected to yourself in relationships. We’ll explore the ways you may have unconsciously abandoned yourself in past relationships and develop new, self-honoring ways of relating that support your emotional well-being.

Through this work, you’ll begin to uncover and transform deep-seated limiting beliefs about your worthiness and the possibility of love, shifting from patterns of self-doubt and fear to confidence and empowerment. As you heal past wounds and step into your authenticity, you’ll start to naturally attract and sustain the kind of healthy, fulfilling relationship that aligns with your highest self. This is about more than just finding love—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who effortlessly calls it in.

“Julia is an exceptional therapist and coach. With her guidance, I not only gained a deep understanding of my patterns but, more importantly, broke free from them. She provided me with the tools and support to continue my journey with confidence and clarity. The Calling in "The One" program far exceeded my expectations—it was truly a transformational experience that changed my entire approach to love and relationships. Today, I feel empowered, confident, and, most importantly, deeply connected to myself. I have learned how to truly listen to and love myself, and that has made all the difference.”

— Darya R - Costa Rica

Calling in "The One" is for You If You…

Desire a Deep, Lasting Love – You’re ready for a committed, soulful partnership and want to attract the right person.

Feel Stuck in Old Patterns – You keep attracting unavailable partners, unaligned partners, experiencing heartbreak, or struggling with self-doubt in love.

Want to Heal From the Past – You’re ready to let go of past relationships, release emotional baggage, and move forward with confidence.

Are Tired of Settling – You know you deserve more and want a love that feels aligned, fulfilling, and mutual.

Struggle With Self-Worth in Relationships – You want to stop overgiving, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships and instead step into and show up as your authentic self.

Crave More Than Just a Relationship – You want to create a love that is joyful, passionate, and built on authentic connection and partnership.

Are Ready to Become "The One" – You understand that attracting the right person starts with becoming the most authentic and best version of yourself.

Calling in "The One" is NOT for You If…

You're Looking for a Quick Fix – This journey is about deep inner work, self-growth, and transformation. If you’re hoping for instant results without doing the work, this may not be the right fit.

You Believe Love is Just About Luck – If you think finding love is purely about chance and not about who you are being, this process won’t resonate.

You're Unwilling to Reflect on Your Patterns – This program invites you to explore your past relationships, beliefs, and behaviors to break free from what’s been holding you back. If you’re not open to self-reflection, it won’t be effective.

You're Focused on Changing Others – This journey is about your transformation, not fixing or changing someone else. The focus is on who you are becoming to naturally attract the right partner.

You're Not Ready to Let Go of the Past – If you’re still deeply attached to an ex or unwilling to release old heartbreak, this program may not be the right timing for you.

You're Not Ready to Commit to Yourself – This is a process of self-love, empowerment, and personal evolution. If you’re not yet willing to prioritize your growth, it may not be the best time to start.

This Journey is for People Who Are Truly Ready to Step Into the Love They Desire.

If you’re open, willing, and excited to transform, Calling in "The One" can change your life in powerful ways.

“It’s hard to put into words just how transformative working with Julia and the Calling in "The One" process has been for me! I had already done a lot of therapy and understood why I kept ending up in the same kinds of relationships with the same kinds of people. What I needed was guidance on how to actually change my patterns and become the person I wanted to be—without losing myself as soon as I was interested in someone. Julia gently guided me through the process of truly BECOMING "The One." I made the choice not to date while doing this work, and when I was ready, we created a dating plan that gave me clarity on how to move forward—what red flags to watch for, how I wanted to feel on a date (rather than focusing on how he felt about me), and how to trust my intuition. For the first time, I could clearly sense when someone wasn’t a match, and that changed everything. I highly recommend this process to anyone who wants to break free from unhealthy dating patterns and attract a truly authentic, healthy relationship.

PS: I met my partner six months after completing my work with Julia! I am still in awe of how powerful this process is.”

— Mariah S. - VP, Marketing - Los Angeles

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Typically, we meet for 12-15 sessions, but there is no set timeframe—it’s entirely guided by your pace and needs. Each session, we focus on one chapter of the book, allowing time to process and integrate the work. Some chapters may take up to three sessions, depending on the depth of exploration needed. If you experience breakthroughs, challenges, or emotional shifts along the way, we create space to work through them, ensuring you feel supported and empowered throughout your journey. This process is not just about completing the steps—it’s about deep, lasting transformation at a pace that feels right for you.

  • One Hour

  • Investment of $300 per session or $3,298 for twelve session program

  • Both Calling in "The One" coaching and therapy support personal growth and healing, but they serve different purposes and approaches. Here’s how they compare:

    1. Focus & Approach

    • Calling in "The One" Coaching is goal-oriented and action-based. It helps you shift limiting beliefs, break old patterns, and become the person who naturally attracts and sustains deep, fulfilling love.

    • Therapy is healing-focused and past-oriented. It explores emotional wounds, trauma, and psychological challenges, helping you process and understand deeper issues.

    2. Timeline & Structure

    • Coaching is a structured, time-limited program designed to create tangible shifts in your love life quickly.

    • Therapy is often long-term and open-ended, focusing on deeper emotional work at a personalized pace.

    • emotional well-being.

    3. Who is it for?

    Coaching is best for you if you:

    • Want to shift patterns and attract a healthy, lasting relationship

    • Are ready for self-discovery and practical action

    • Want personalized guidance to step into your most empowered and authentic self in love

    Therapy may be better suited if you:

    • Need support for deep emotional healing or mental health concerns

    • Are struggling with trauma, depression, or anxiety that affects your daily life

    • Want to explore unresolved past experiences in a therapeutic setting

  • The Calling in "The One" journey is designed to help you release old patterns, heal past wounds, and step into your full power before inviting love into your life. While dating might feel tempting, here’s why it’s often best to wait:

    1. You Need Time to Focus on Yourself

    This process is about becoming the version of you who effortlessly attracts the right relationship. Dating too soon can pull your focus outward when the real work is happening within.

    2. You’re Still Releasing Old Patterns

    If you’ve struggled with unhealthy relationship dynamics—such as attracting unavailable partners, overgiving, or settling—it’s essential to clear these patterns first so you don’t repeat them.

    3. Dating Can Be a Distraction from Deep Inner Work

    Healing requires emotional energy and reflection. If you start dating before fully integrating your personal growth, you may be tempted to fall back into familiar (but unhelpful) patterns.

    4. You Want to Attract Love from a Place of Wholeness

    The goal isn’t just to find any relationship—it’s to align with the right relationship. By taking time to do the inner work, you ensure you’re choosing love from confidence, clarity, and self-worth—not loneliness or fear.

    5. You’re Rewiring Your “Love Identity”

    This program helps you shift limiting beliefs about love, relationships, and your self-worth. Giving yourself space to fully embody these shifts means you’ll show up differently when the right relationship does appear.

    6. You Deserve to Enter Love Fully Ready

    Rather than rushing into something prematurely, you’re giving yourself the gift of emotional clarity and empowerment. When you do start dating again, you’ll do so from a place of confidence, knowing exactly what you deserve.

  • You’ll know you’re ready when:
    -You feel secure, whole, and happy on your own—not looking for someone to complete you
    -You recognize red flags and stop ignoring or excusing them
    -You feel clear about your worth, needs and non-negotiables in love
    -You’re open to love—not from a place of need, but from a place of abundance

    By giving yourself the space to heal, grow, and fully step into your power, you ensure that when love arrives, it’s truly the right love. 

Ready to Call in "The One"?

This isn’t just about finding love—it’s about becoming the version of you who attracts and creates a deep, meaningful relationship. Let’s begin this journey together!